October is National Breast Cancer Awareness Month. It was organized to raise awareness of the disease and also to raise funds to help research the cure. If you’ve ever had breast cancer or had a loved one battle it, you know what a difficult, life-changing experience it can be.
If you’ve visited our Shawnee office, you’ve met Sandra, our Director of First Impressions, and one of the most grateful, cheerful, enthusiastic (think singing in the halls) people you will ever meet. Sandra, or “Sands”, is also a breast cancer survivor. We would like you to hear a bit of her story.
True Gratitude
“I’m not a Midwest girl by birth. I was born in Newfoundland, Canada, on an American Air Base. My father is from Philadelphia, and my mother was born and raised in Newfoundland. By the time I was eighteen, I had lived all over, spending years in Tokyo and then in Anchorage, Alaska.
“In 2004, I was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer. I knew immediately upon finding the lump that I had cancer. I don’t know how I knew exactly, but I did.
“My cancer journey began rapidly, and every day included numerous tests and consults. Then it was on to surgery, chemo, and radiation. My surgery was on a Friday the 13th, which has always been my lucky number! Chemotherapy began a few weeks after healing from the surgery and went on for several months.
“I chose to only take days off from work when I had chemo treatments. Continuing to work kept me focused. Being surrounded by people who had my back—my family, friends, and co-workers—made a huge difference as well. They made me feel safe. They didn’t laugh when all of my hair fell out or when I puffed up like a basketball from the effects of the chemo. You find the true value of a friend when you are diagnosed with an illness.
“I wasn’t ever sad or angry that this happened to me. I felt that would be a waste of energy. Everyone reacts differently to a diagnosis like this, but that is simply not my personality. Gratitude is something I have been blessed with, so staying positive was a given for me, as that is pretty much how I have always lived my life. Certainly not every day was a good one, but every day was one day closer to the end of my treatment and to healing. I stayed focused and positive, which proved to be for my benefit.
“August of this year marked my twelfth year of being in remission. Do I get nervous when I go to my doctors for yearly tests? Of course. But every year I am so very grateful that I remain in remission. The day that my oncologist released me from my visits was a milestone for me. We both cried. I know how lucky I am, and I don’t ever take any day for granted.
“It’s like one of my favorite quotes says: ‘Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.’
“The best advice I would give to someone battling breast cancer is to stay focused. You are a warrior, and there is light at the end of the tunnel. And don’t forget to laugh every chance you get!
Get Involved
Sands makes it a point to watch the annual Stand Up to Cancer broadcast and make a donation for cancer research, and we’d encourage you to do the same! Watch this year’s show here. You can also learn more about Breast Cancer Awareness Month and how you can get involved here.